The resonating heart of an aunt

Every now and then, while out with my neices and nephews I get the question, "Are these your kids?", or "Do you have children?" My response each time is always, "I have 2 neices and 5 nephews, I consider them my own since I've changed their diapers and since they are always with me." Which immediately sparks a giggle between the person asking and myself.

I began to think, although I am not a birthmother, all I have ever known was to be a comforter and obtained a nurturing spirit that came oh so naturally.

I read a definition of 'mother' once that said, (mother: to bring up a child with care and affection.) I believe this definition resides to the intimacy and compassion I feel with my loved ones.

I never thought becoming an aunt would be life changing... but for me, it was. To become an aunt was not only an honor, but it brought life and joy back into my own. I can honestly say that there is not one day I go without thinking of my neices and nephews. The special bond and connection I have with each is enlightening and embeded with trust, which I am glad of.

Sometimes I show their pictures off to strangers because I am so proud of their accomplishments.

Sometimes I talk about them when I'm at an outing with friends and begin telling them a funny story about something they did.

Sometimes I buy them activities to do while I'm at the store and hold it until I see them again.

Sometimes I call my sisters to see how their day went or to see what they're up to.

Sometimes I play games with them, even when I'm feeling exhausted because I want to them to know I care for them and their interests.

Sometimes I jump out of bed and join them in any activity they are doing because I don't want to miss out the time I have with them.

Sometimes I worry that they are growing up too fast.

Sometimes I think about the day they will leave to college and I cry because I miss them already.

Sometimes just hearing their voice gets me through the day and makes it so much better.

I am thankful that God blessed me with my nieces and nephews, they are the reason I keep pressing on and pushing through the most difficult seasons. Especially when my parents had covid, without knowing, they were bringing me comfort and keeping me grounded with each video call and battle royal.

Everyday I say a prayer for them before going to bed. I pray for God to protect them, for the Holy Spirit to lead them and for the future that is prepared for them to be fulfilled with favor.

The reason I am who I am today is because of them. Regardless of what life may bring, I will always be here for them when needed. Without hesitation or doubt, I will run to them when they call me.

This is for all the aunt's out there who aren't mothers, you matter... and I want you to know that you have so much influence on the little ones.

If you can relate... I thank you, I am proud of you, I understand you, I feel you and I am you.

Let's continue to show love, support and never let go. Family is what makes the world go round and is my greatest priority.

Aunts, even though we aren't mothers... our heart resonates just alike. Thank you for raising, teaching, nurturing, caring, protecting and being present. ❤️

Proverbs 22:6

"Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it."

Psalm 127:3

"Children are a gift from the Lord."